谁建立了成功的标准哲理故事
上帝听说世间鼎盛，人人都前所未有地崇尚成功，心下窃喜，决定去探听虚实。他召集来若干凡人，问：“你们认为什么是成功？”
张三说：“成功就是像大款那样有闲有钱。”
李四答：“成功就是像明星那样有型有款。”
王老五喊:“成功就是像名人那样有头有脸。”
上帝摇头，禁止他们用“像某某一样”句型，众人面面相觑，不明所以。
上帝索性问：“成功的标准是谁给的？”
大家小声嘀咕：“管他是谁，反正不是我！”
上帝不甘心，决心继续考察。
他先是变成了一个有钱人，在花园里，他远远地望见一个年轻女人正在微笑地注视着在不远处玩耍的孩子和老人，他走上去，说：“我是有钱人，你认为我和你谁更成功？”
女人笑了，回答：“我是孩子的好母亲，父母的.好女儿，丈夫的好妻子，单位的好员工，社会的好公民，而你只是有钱人，你说谁更成功？”
“有钱人”继续问：“成功的标准难道不是我们这些有钱人给的吗？”
女人说:“那上帝造我们这些人出来是干什么的呢？”
上帝满意地走了。
他接着变成了一个明星，在路边，他远远地望见一个中年男子正在悠闲地蹬着自行车，他迎上去，说:“我是明星，你认为我和你谁更成功？”
男人乐了，回答：“我活得坦荡而自由，而你只是个连结没结婚都不敢承认的明星，你说谁更成功？”
“明星”继续问：“成功的标准不是我们这些明星给的吗？”
男人说：“那这世界岂不是像娱乐圈一样无聊？”
上帝满意地走了。
他最后变成了一个名人，在稻田里，他远远地望见一个老农在种地，他走上去，说：“我是名人，你认为我和你谁更成功？”
老农擦了把汗，想了想，回答：“俺不知道什么是成功，俺只知道俺把四个娃都供着念书成人。”
“名人”继续问：“成功的标准不是我们这些名人给的吗？”
老农说：“俺供俺娃读书的快活可不是你给的。”
如此说来——上帝形而上学地想：成功只是一种审美情趣？他带着疑问去找马克思，马克思说:“上帝先生，美，就是人自身本质力量的对象化。”
“什么意思？通俗点。”
“一个人通过自己的行动和努力，感受到了自己的力量，看到了自己的内心，就会获得美的愉悦。”
上帝明白了——成功也是一样。
【谁建立了成功的标准哲理故事】
建立严密的安全网演讲稿
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安全生产月只是一个形式，只有当这个形式承载了真正具有实际意义的内容时，它才是有意义的。它的意义就在于，通过这种形式引起大家对安全工作的关注，进一步强化人们对于“安全”二字的认识。如果我们不赋予它这种意义，它就仅仅只是一个形式，不可能达到任何效果。而如果我们每个人在这个以“安全”为名的月份里，都能够被这些热烈的形式所激发而警醒，真正静下心来，以毫不留情的目光审视我们的工作，不回避地提出工作中存在的问题，以绝不敷衍的态度深入思考并积极寻求解决和改进的办法，如果我们的这些审视、质疑、寻求改进的建设性思考等等能够真正改变我们一些陈旧的观念，扭转我们一些错误的行为方式，从而对我们今后的'安全工作真正发生影响，那么，这个“安全生产月”就不再仅仅是形式了，我们的有效行为赋予了它意义，帮助它实现了“以月促年”的最终使命，而与此同时，我们自己也在手中更多地握住了一份“平安每一天”的信心和保障。
重视安全不应仅在安全生产月，我们常说，要时刻绷紧安全弦。这个强调的是人的安全意识，但其实，就我们的工作实际而言，这句话大可改为：请在你所负责的岗位上和工作时段内时刻绷紧安全弦。安全依靠每一个岗位的每一个人对自己职责不折不扣地履行、对自己工作不折不扣地完成，而这种不折不扣，并不需要神经时刻绷紧，只要我们每一个人都确保自己所负责的工作时段和范围不发生“意外”，确保自己所主管的机器设备正常运转，集合起来就是整条船舶、整个系统的安全、正常运转；只要我们每一个人都能保证自己完全彻底地履行了职责、不折不扣地完成了工作，并且确信我们的伙伴也同样如此，那么，还有什么可担心的呢？
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关于高中班级管理中建立班务日记思考
关于高中班级管理中建立班务日记思考1
班务日记制度是一种在班主任的指导下由学生自主对班级日常事务进行管理和记录的制度，它对于优化班风，促进学生全面发展具有重要作用，高中班级管理中建立班务日记的思考。在新的社会条件下，独生子女集团的特殊性和社会不良风气的侵袭，使学生集体意识缺乏，自我约束能力下降。因此，在高中生相对较强的单独行为能力的基础上进一步提高管理能力、自律意识以及道德评价能力，对于发展学生个性，全面推进素质教育具有非常重要的意义。而在这其中，小小的一份班务日记加上适当的辅助手段就能起到积极的作用。
为了检验在高中班级建立班务日记的有效性，探索其积极意义，两年来笔者在所任的高中班级建立了班务日记制度，并相应配套实行了班干部轮岗制、德育量化考核制，调动学生积极性，发挥学生自主性来管理班级，取得了一定效果，教育论文《高中班级管理中建立班务日记的思考》。下面就对建立班务日记制度的价值思考及探索结果作简要阐述。
一、建立班务日记制度的价值思考
卢梭说过：“不要对你的学生进行任何种类的口头教训，应该使他们从经验中去取得教训。”①让学生真正自主地处理班级日常事务，在其过程中吸取教训，积累经验，培养能力，从道德品质和能力培养角度出发，对高中生的成长是具有重要意义的，这也是符合新时期优秀人才培养事业对高中教育提出的要求的。在这一点上，班务日记应当是具有积极作用的。
1、有利于培养学生管理能力，促进全面发展。学生到学校里来绝不是仅仅需要学习a o e、A B C、x y z，我们还必须培养学生的各方面能力，促进学生全面发展。传统观点认为班干部是班主任的帮手、“配角”，导致班干部工作主动性与创造性的缺乏；从现代观点来看，班干部应是班级管理的主角，具有较强的单独行为能力的高中班干部尤其如此，班主任要当好导演，引导方向，梳理矛盾，让班干部有机会表现自我。心理学认为“实践活动在人的能力发展上起着决定性的作用”。②所以利用班务日记能使班干部有真正意义上的自主管理、表现自我的实践机会，从而培养其发现问题、认识问题、分析问题和解决问题的能力，进而提高其管理能力，从素质准备上适应新时期对
关于高中班级管理中建立班务日记思考2
班务日记制度是一种在班主任的指导下由学生自主对班级日常事务进行管理和记录的制度，它对于优化班风，促进学生全面发展具有重要作用。在新的社会条件下，独生子女集团的特殊性和社会不良风气的侵袭，使学生集体意识缺乏，自我约束能力下降。因此，在高中生相对较强的单独行为能力的基础上进一步提高管理能力、自律意识以及道德评价能力，对于发展学生个性，全面推进素质教育具有非常重要的意义。而在这其中，小小的一份班务日记加上适当的辅助手段就能起到积极的作用。
为了检验在高中班级建立班务日记的有效性，探索其积极意义，两年来笔者在所任的高中班级建立了班务日记制度，并相应配套实行了班干部轮岗制、德育量化考核制，调动学生积极性，发挥学生自主性来管理班级，取得了一定效果。下面就对建立班务日记制度的价值思考及探索结果作简要阐述。
一、建立班务日记制度的价值思考
卢梭说过：“不要对你的学生进行任何种类的口头教训，应该使他们从经验中去取得教训。”①让学生真正自主地处理班级日常事务，在其过程中吸取教训，积累经验，培养能力，从道德品质和能力培养角度出发，对高中生的成长是具有重要意义的，这也是符合新时期优秀人才培养事业对高中教育提出的要求的。在这一点上，班务日记应当是具有积极作用的。
1、有利于培养学生管理能力，促进全面发展。学生到学校里来绝不是仅仅需要学习a o e、A B C、x y z，我们还必须培养学生的各方面能力，促进学生全面发展。传统观点认为班干部是班主任的帮手、“配角”，导致班干部工作主动性与创造性的缺乏；从现代观点来看，班干部应是班级管理的主角，具有较强的单独行为能力的高中班干部尤其如此，班主任要当好导演，引导方向，梳理矛盾，让班干部有机会表现自我。心理学认为“实践活动在人的能力发展上起着决定性的作用”。②所以利用班务日记能使班干部有真正意义上的自主管理、表现自我的实践机会，从而培养其发现问题、认识问题、分析问题和解决问题的能力，进而提高其管理能力，从素质准备上适应新时期对管理型人才的需求。
2、有利于促进班级风气的优化。“班级是学生社会化机构，学生在班级里学习和内化社会规范，懂得做人之道，通过他人的评价和自己与班级其他成员的比照，学会认识自我和评价自我。”③因此在中学生道德品质形成和发展过程中，提高学生道德实践能力、道德认识能力和道德评价能力（即提高自律意识和自省能力），必须依靠集体的力量。班务日记制度的建立有助于使学生的集体荣誉感具体化，并强化班级内部舆论作用，从而有助于建立一个积极向上的成员个性优良的真正意义上的班集体。而在这样一个班集体中，教学与管理的作用才能互相促进，学生才能更好地懂得“做人之道”，遵守社会规范，并有效地提高学习成绩。
3、有利于减轻班主任工作负担。一般看法是班主任工作应以“勤”字当头，但实际上单凭一个“勤”字并不能高效地解决一切问题。正如李同志在1985年教师节致全国教师的信中所说的：“教师的劳动，是一种科学的也是艺术的创造。”班务日记制度能让班主任改变婆婆妈妈式的管理为遥控式管理，从而充分尊重学生并解放自身。运用班务日记制度能贯彻“人尽其才，物尽其用”的原则，使学生“人人有事干，事事有人干”，从而充分挖掘班级人力资源，使全部学生以积极的态度自觉自主地投入到班级管理中去；使班主任节省了时间，能够以更多的精力投入到教育科研等工作中去。此外，有了班务日记，班主任能在短时间内掌握学生动态，了解班级情况，从而为及时处理班级事务及突发事件赢得主动，在最大程度上防止重大事故的发生。
4、有利于对学生的操行评定，形成班级多渠道公开管理。操行评定是对学生在一个学期内的学习、劳动、思想品德等方面的小结和评价，可以帮助学生了解自己在各方面的成绩和进步，认识优缺点，将客观评价和主观上的认识结合起来，提高自觉性，促进进步。但是缺乏具体依据的操行评定如果失去权威性，会给学生造成不认同的心理，将不但破坏操行评定的积极作用，甚至会产生反作用。俗话说：“不以规矩，不成方圆。”只要依据班级实际制定相应的德育量化考核方案来配合班务日记制度的实施，操作评定便有了具体的重要依据。形成一个合理的德育评价机制之后，能有效地在班级中创建“民主与法制”的气氛，使班级管理真正民主化，在维护操行评定的权威性的同时提高班级成员的积极性和主人翁意识。此外，班务日记的公开还能形成管理公开化的模式，形成班主任、任课老师、班干部、学生多渠道的互相管理，互相监督，从而有效地提高管理效率。
二、建立班务日记制度的探索
基于以上建立班务日记制度的价值思考，笔者近两年将这一制度作为高中生德育的一个重要方法进行了试行和探索。主要是依据学生提议和讨论结果结合本校班级考核制度设计班务日记格式，以求规范地明确集体和个人的任务。（班务日记格式见附二）然后依据班务日记将班级管理分为出勤纪律、学生作业、行规仪表、劳动卫生、突发情况等五方面，落实到人。其次是配以德育量化考核制度和班干部轮岗制。经过两年时间摸索，笔者总结了以下在高中班级管理中运用班务日记制度的'几点原则。
1、全面性原则。即全班每名学生均应有机会参与管理班级一切日常事务。首先是每位学生都有机会当班干部，即班干部轮岗制。具体地说是班长由“海选”（学生提名，学生选举）产生，并组阁班委；两个月轮岗一次再行选举，班委不设“常委”，所有班干部连任不得超过两届。其次是每位干部对应定点包干若干管理工作，及时记录并自主处理不正常情况，严重的情况及班委无法处理的情况则上报给班主任处理。全面性原则的贯彻不但能使班级一切日常事务及突发事件能得到及时处理，并且充分营造民主管理气氛，还使每个学生得到真正的锻炼机会。
2、经常性原则。即班主任经常观察班务日记。（一般情况下用早自修及课前时间即可）一来可以掌握班级学生动态，及时调整班级管理工作方针，以求良好效果；二来可以掌握班干部工作情况，能对班干部工作作出及时正确的评价；三来可以发现日记的不合理之处，并根据学生讨论及时调整日记内容。经常性原则的贯彻能使班级平稳发展，避免不良事件的发生。
3、规范性原则。即班务日记的记录要规范，不走过场。一者，班主任应召开班干部会议进行班级管理的培训，强调记录的规范，并研究班级动态；二者，班主任应及时以集体和个别相结合的方式指导工作，促使班级和日记制度向预定的轨道发展。规范性原则的贯彻，能使班级和日记制度始终处于良好的运行状态，从而保证班务日记制度实施的效果，不流于形式。
4、考核性原则。即将班务日记和学生德育量化考核、班干部考评结合起来。一是与德育量化考核方案的配合，定期（最好是以周为单位时间）进行量化评分，并公布考核结果，借助舆论以建立激励机制，鞭策学生培养更好的自律意识和自省能力。二是进行阶段工作总结（以一个月或两个月为单位时间），结合学校的班级考核结果和班级民主生活会考核班干部工作，“论功行赏”，以激励学生参与管理的积极性。考核性原则的贯彻，最终目标在于教育学生懂得自觉纪律在集体生活中的重要意义，做到能正确处理个人与集体的辩证关系，能严于律己，宽于待人，互相尊重与谅解，形成正确的道德价值观。
5、公开性原则。即班务日记定点放置，供师生共同检查监督。一般来说以放置于讲台桌为宜，一方面任课老师也可以及时观察，掌握动态，参与管理，有利于教师之间交换意见，共同管好班级；另一方面有利于班干部及学生通过班务日记互相监督和自律自省。公开性原则的贯彻，其目的在于使班级管理透明化，并使更多的人参与班级的民主管理，促进班集体向良好的运行轨道健康发展。
6、针对性原则。即班主任要根据班务日记所反映的突发事件及不良倾向及时地有针对性地处理，绝不拖拉或遥而不控，置之不理。班主任应根据实际情况采用多种方式如谈心、家访、电话联系等，不放过一切机会，不遗留一个漏洞地做好工作。针对性原则的贯彻，目的在于提高学生对班务日记的信赖程度，使班务日记能最大限度发挥其应有作用。
三、班务日记制度的实施效果
苏霍姆林斯基说过：“道德准则，只有当它们被学生自己去追求，获得和亲自体验过的时候，只有当它们变成学生独立的个人信念的时候，才能真正成为学生的财富。”④班务日记制度正是有效地使学生在亲自参与班级管理过程中获得和体验道德准则的一项制度，它有助于学生克服不良倾向，培养全面素质尤其是管理能力和自律意识。经过两年的有目的、有计划的班务日记制度建设，现笔者所任班级学生理性思维能力增强，大都具有反思精神；班级凝聚力强，师生人际关系融洽，班风、学风良好，尤其是连续两年在学校班级星级考评中提前一个月达到“三星”标准，名列全校之首。无疑，班务日记制度的积极有效作用已使笔者所任班级发展成为一个朝气蓬勃、健康、积极向上的优秀班集体。
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建立自信心的英文作文（精选9篇）
英语作文，是指用英语针对某一内容写出一篇文章，是英语考试最常见的一种题目类型。建立自信心的英文作文应该怎么写?
建立自信心的英文作文 篇1
People say that self-confidence is half of the success that can bring you courage to stick to what you do. Without self-confidence, one can not do well in anything. Self-confidence is of great importance and value to a person.
人们说自信是成功的一半，它能给你带来勇气去坚持你所做的事。没有自信，一个人就不能做好任何事。自信对一个人很重要也很有价值。
Firstly, self-confidence enables us to have the ambition of being successful. Only when you have the ambition to be successful, can you be successful eventually. Secondly, once we gain self-confidence, we will possess the courage and strength to overcome the setbacks and difficulties. With self-confidence, no one and nothing can stop you to success.Thirdly, with self-confidence we may accomplish something which seems to be impossible previously. No great thing is easy for us, therefore we should hold the idea that anything is possible. We should, or have to trust in ourselves.
首先，自信使我们拥有成功的雄心。只有当你有成功的.野心的时候，你最后才能成功。其次，一旦我们获得了自信，我们就拥有了勇气和力量去克服挫折和困难。有了自信，没有人也没有什么能够阻止你成功。再次，有了自信我们可能实现一些以前看起来不可能的事。没有什么大事对我们是容易的，因此我们应该相信一切皆有可能。我们应该，或者必须相信自己。
In short, self-confidence is the spiritual pillar of a person as well as the inherent power, which is of great importance and value to a person.
总之，自信是一个人的精神支柱也是一个人的内在力量，它对一个人很重要也很有价值。
建立自信心的英文作文 篇2
Self-confidence as is approved by research and practice has an amazingly powerful influence on the output of people’s activities. Patients who believe that they’ll recover soon generally cures faster than those who think they won’t. Students with optimistic characters usually provide better performance even if they work the same hard as others. Although someone may regard such conclusion as superstitious it does take place everyday and everywhere. Neural scientists have discovered that when a man feels confident his brain will secrete some kinds of hormone that boost brain activity and improve the efficiency of his immune system. In contrast a melancholic brain is suppressed by other chemicals and cannot fully exhibit its potential.
To help building up self-confidence you can take the following two steps. First identify your merits and value them. If you constantly compare your weakness to others’ advantages you’d only gain frustration rather than confidence. Second track every little progress you’ve made and review them frequently. You may not possibly become perfectly successful in one day but if only you can see yourself growing gradually surely you’re on the right way. There’re also other methods making you more confident that depend on yourself to find out and they’re all necessary elements to make you more competitive in your area.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇3
Currently, self-confidence has become the order of our life, which improves the theory that nothing is more valuable than self-confidence.
It is obvious that self-confidence means trust in one’s ability. If we are full of self-confidence, we’ll have creative power to live and work, helping us success or dreams come true. On the contrary, if we have no confidence in ourselves, there will be little possibilities for us to win. We’ll always face failure.
What’s more, no one can deny another fact that self-confidence gives us light when we walk in the dark and courage when we face stumbling blocks. With self-confidence, we can achieve goals in our life.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇4
Whatever one does, one should do it with confidence. If one has no confidence, there is little possibility that one can achieve anything when faced with hardships. This truth seems to be self-evident. In reality, however, we do see a lot of people who always complain that they lack the ability to do something or that their difficulties are too great to overcome. For some, this might be true. But for many others, this only shows that they have lost heart.
Why do some people often feel frustrated even though they are capable of doing something? I think there are two main reasons. In the first place, these people don’t have a correct estimate of themselves. For example, …… Secondly, there is another possibility that they exaggerate the difficulties. They can’t see ….. They tend to ……..
In my opinion, one should build up faith in oneself as long as he has a right attitude towards his own abilities. We should neither underestimate nor overestimate our abilities. As a proverb says, “Where there is a will, there is a way.” With confidence we can certainly cope with any task we are faced with.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇5
Confidence, in a broad sense, comprises self-trust,self-esteem, courage and indomitability.This definition,though somewhat vague and unsubstantial, can be appreciated through experience because iff our lifetime, we are always seeking to achieve something successful and are always longing.to attain a glorious goal, which can only be reached with the spirit of self confidence.
As is known, self-confidence is accompanied by will, and that as a twin, offers hope. Those who do not have a strong will often think themselves unable to carry out any thorny tasks, while those who have do not find the tasks unsurmountably difficult. In fact, when our heart is void of selfconfidence, every hope is gone, every thing on which we put our hands seems to be veiled in dark. For instance, according to experts, every year in the entrance examinations of all kinds, fully-prepared candidates lose nearly 5% to 10% of the full scores, and consequently meet their Waterloo simply because they underestimate their own abilities, on the one hand,and overestimate possible difficulties on the other. As a result, their fear to meet new challenge leads to helplessness in the examination.
Self-confidence can be regained (if you have ever lost it) by building faith in yourself.True,whatever you do, you will encounter hardships. Put success Will come to you if you are courageous enough to strive for it. If you are not, failure might be your life-companion.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇6
As we all know, “Failure is the mother of success.” But I just want to say“Success is the baby of confidence.”
First of all, confidence makes us happier in our life. Life is like a wonderful song, a bright and colorful painting. If confidence is with us in our life, we will find that life really becomes richer and more interesting.
Then, confidence makes us brave and courageous. If we lack confidence in ourselves, how can we overcome difficulties we meet with? If we have no confideuce in ourselves, how can we succeed in developing ourselves in the future?Without confidence, nothing can be accomplished. That is to say, if you want to win, you have to believe in yourself.
Finally, I would like to use the following words as our mutual encouragement：“If you think you can, you can.”
【成功与自信的英文作文的译文】
众所周知，“失败是成功之母”，但是，我只想说：“成功是自信之子。
首先，自信使我们的生活更幸福。生活宛如一首动听的歌，一幅色彩缤纷的图画，假如生命中有了自信-，我们会发现生活会变得更丰富，更有趣。
其次，自信能使我们变得英勇无比。假如我们缺乏自信，那么如何去克服遇到的困难呢?假如没有自信，又如何在未来成功地发展自己呢?没有自信，你就不可能做咸任何事情，也就是说，如果你想成功，你必须相信自己!
最后，我想用下面一句话与你共勉：“如果你认为你能成功，你一定会成功”
建立自信心的英文作文 篇7
As a famous saying goes that life is not a bed of roses,we will always encounter difficulties or troubles in our daily life.but what you should do when we are caught in difficult situations.
First we should keep an optimistic attitude.
Secondly,we should be clearly aware of our strengths and defects.
Thirdly,we should know well about our enemy,the difficulties.
Fourthly,when preparation work is ready,next we should put what we have planned into practice step by step.There go several pieces of advice.First of all,as a saying said that well begun is half done,so it's better to start from the easiest part of the trouble.Then,when we have made some achievements in dealing with the trouble,we can move on to the harder part of it.
This way of handling trouble will be more effectively.After we conquer each high mountain of troubles,we will not only get new opportunities,but also make more achievements in the adventurous journey of our life.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇8
Confidence is essential for everyone. Only establishing confidence can we accomplish our goal. Nevertheless, many people especially teenagers are lack of confidence. What a serious problem! How to develop confidence?
First of all, we should aware of our own advantages. Though nobody is perfect, we can be proud of own advantages. In this way, we can adapt the pressure of contemporary society.Secondly, we are supposed to give ourselves a smile face. It's necessary to remember that not tire of life and look down on ourselves. Facing a mirror to smile, maybe we will feel confident. Finally, we shouldn't be afraid of failure and challenges. On the contrary, we should raise our courage to overcome these problems.
In a word, as a saying says,” Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you. "Confidence for us is an indispensable part of our life.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇9
Some people say that self-confidence is the most beautiful. Confidence is a sense of certainty about their, no matter how others see you, treat yourself confident can never stingy. Self-confidence can you loose the burden in the heart, like a bird free flying, tell you not a little bird. More confident, life will be more beautiful.
May be destined to a person's character, it is not easy to change. But if everyone into confident on their own elements, their life will become more colorful, more open. You may ask why you are confident? I think: confidence + opportunity = success.
So self-confidence is indispensable auxiliary conditions. Everyone thinks oneself from birth, fate dominate everything, all want to follow the path of destiny. If you have such idea, may be you are wrong. Destiny is master in your hand, opportunity is in your side. The you find place, it did not work. Don't let the chance to run out in front of you, the first to catch the opportunities, of course. However, get the opportunities, of course, is a good thing. But people have the opportunity to don't you will achieve success. Some people often suffer from failure tripping, overwhelm be heavy setbacks, let these people thought he was a mediocre person, chance on them. Success will become very slim.
So have the opportunity is important, the most important thing is that you have confidence. Even if you get upset about my setbacks, as long as you have a good mood, have full confidence in myself. Believe that failure and frustration on you again, can also be solved. So self-confidence is very important for a person, even if you don't have too much talent, have the confidence you have into a big step away from success than others. Albert Einstein said, confidence is to take the first step to success. So people should have confidence, also need confidence in life.
The colour of life more and more beautiful. The reason is that everyone is different, look at the point of view of the world depends on your mindset. A bright and cheerful disposition, confident people tend to think the outside world is wonderful, instead you will feel it is all under the gray.
Living on his own shortcomings too persistent, this will give you self-confidence greatly diminished. Measure their feet well in my heart, you will find yourself actually also has advantages.
So life need confidence, because confidence makes you more beautiful.
【建立自信心的英文作文（精选9篇）】
如何建立自信八大方针英语作文
在学习、工作乃至生活中，大家对作文都再熟悉不过了吧，作文是人们把记忆中所存储的有关知识、经验和思想用书面形式表达出来的记叙方式。作文的注意事项有许多，你确定会写吗？以下是小编收集整理的如何建立自信八大方针英语作文，希望对大家有所帮助。
We live in a world where criticizing people and focusing on negative attributes seems to be the social norm.
我们生活在一个这样的世界里：人们恣意批评他人，专注于消极情绪，而这些似乎成为了社会规范。
It’s an unfortunate aspect of life and many people well into adulthood still struggle with their own self confidence. It’s also unfortunate that these same people may be missing out in life because they don’t believe in themselves, or they don’t believe that they deserve the good things in life. This is simply not true. 这是生活中不幸的一面，许多人就算在成年后仍也旧在为自信而奋斗，这些人可能在生活中迷失了自己，因为他们不相信自己，或者他们不相信他们值得拥有生活中美好的东西，这对他们来说也是不幸的。这就是不对的。
It all begins within yourself, and you have to want to change things for the better. If you can’t change your environment, you can at least change your own ways.
这一切都源于你自己，你必须要为变得更好而改变。如果你不能改变环境，你至少可以改变自己的方式。
1. Get good at something
有一技之长
Sometimes all it takes is a little talent. Taking up a hobby or refining a talent can do wonders for your confidence. If you feel brave enough, you can show other people your hard work. It never hurts to hear a little praise on occasion.
有时候所需要的仅是一点点天赋。培养一种爱好或发挥天赋，这对增强信心起着不可思议的作用。如果你能勇敢面对，你可以让其他人看到你的勤奋工作。偶尔听一听赞扬也没什么不好。
2. Keep a journal
写日志
You are your own worst critic, but you don’t have to be. Recording your accomplishments or writing about things that make you happy can help you realize your own self worth. Life is worth living and you should remind yourself of that.
你是你自己最刻薄的批评家，但是你不需要这样去做。记录你的成就或写一些能让自己快乐的事情，这可以帮助实现你的.自我价值。生活值得活下去，你应该提醒自己这一点。
3. Keep fit
保持健康
Exercising and eating healthy food can make you feel good about the choices you make for yourself. When you notice how good and healthy you look, you won’t have reason to try to hide behind baggy clothes.
锻炼和吃健康的食物可以让你为自己所做的选择感觉良好。当你意识到你看起来是那么的良好和健康时，你将不会找理由试图把自己藏到宽松的衣服里。
4. Take care of yourself
照顾好自己
Do something that you want to do. If nobody wants to see that cheesy movie with you, go by yourself and don’t get into the mindset that only losers go to the movies alone. Being independent and not having to constantly have companionship is a strength, not a weakness.
做你想做的事。如果没有人愿意陪你看那种俗气的电影，那就自己去吧，但是不要陷入只有失败者才会独自去看电影的心理模式。保持独立而非成群结队是一种优势，而不是劣势。
5. Turn into an optimist
做个乐观主义者
It makes no sense remarking on the dark clouds while ignoring the rainbow. Seeking positive ideas and looking at the “bright side” can affect your mood for the better. Focusing on the good things in life can help you hold your head high, knowing that life is good, even when it seems bad.
忽视彩虹却只把重点放在乌云上，这是完全没有意义的。寻求积极的想法，看到“光明的一面”可以让你的情绪变得更好。关注生活中美好
的东西让你能抬头挺胸，即使当生活看起来糟糕，你也会明白它是美好的。
6. Spend some time alone…but not too much
花点时间独处，但不要太多
Everyone should have some time to themselves every day. Reading a book or enjoying the outdoors are great for the soul. But too much alone time can get the brain to sit stagnant. Sometimes people get sick of themselves and end up thinking of things that end up depressing them. Have a healthy dose of “you” time, but make sure you leave the room to seek out the people who matter most.
每个人每天都应该在自己身上花点时间。阅读一本书或享受户外活动，对心灵来说是很好的方式。但是过多的独处会让大脑反应缓慢呆滞。有时人们会讨厌自己，最终陷于令自己沮丧的事情中。对“自己” 的独处时间要有一个合理的安排，保证在你走出房门后去寻找最重要的人。
7. Do good deeds
做好事
There’s nothing like helping other people to give you that warm, fuzzy feeling inside. You know you’ve done something good and that you made another person happy. Making a difference in someone’s life can make a difference in your own, for the better.
没有什么比帮助别人能带给你内心更温暖、舒适的感觉了。你自己知道，你做过好事，你让别人感到快乐。你让别人的生活变得不同，这也会让你自己的生活变得不同，也许会变得更好。
8. Set achievable goals
设立可完成的目标
Setting impossible goals only sets you up for failure. If, for example, you want to lose weight, small increments at a time may be a good option. You can easily lose five pounds. Lose those five pounds and you will feel a sense of accomplishment. Further challenge yourself to another small amount. The more goals you achieve, the more you will see how awesome you really are.
设立一个无法实现的目标只会将你引向失败。比如说你想减肥，每次小幅度的增加可能是一个不错的选择。你可以很容易的减掉5磅。减掉了5磅体重，你会有成就感。进一步挑战自己，再减掉一小部分体重。你实现的目标越多，你会意识到你是多么的了不起。
【如何建立自信八大方针英语作文】
建立自信心的英文作文（精选9篇）
英语作文，是指用英语针对某一内容写出一篇文章，是英语考试最常见的一种题目类型。建立自信心的英文作文应该怎么写?
建立自信心的英文作文 篇1
People say that self-confidence is half of the success that can bring you courage to stick to what you do. Without self-confidence, one can not do well in anything. Self-confidence is of great importance and value to a person.
人们说自信是成功的一半，它能给你带来勇气去坚持你所做的事。没有自信，一个人就不能做好任何事。自信对一个人很重要也很有价值。
Firstly, self-confidence enables us to have the ambition of being successful. Only when you have the ambition to be successful, can you be successful eventually. Secondly, once we gain self-confidence, we will possess the courage and strength to overcome the setbacks and difficulties. With self-confidence, no one and nothing can stop you to success.Thirdly, with self-confidence we may accomplish something which seems to be impossible previously. No great thing is easy for us, therefore we should hold the idea that anything is possible. We should, or have to trust in ourselves.
首先，自信使我们拥有成功的雄心。只有当你有成功的.野心的时候，你最后才能成功。其次，一旦我们获得了自信，我们就拥有了勇气和力量去克服挫折和困难。有了自信，没有人也没有什么能够阻止你成功。再次，有了自信我们可能实现一些以前看起来不可能的事。没有什么大事对我们是容易的，因此我们应该相信一切皆有可能。我们应该，或者必须相信自己。
In short, self-confidence is the spiritual pillar of a person as well as the inherent power, which is of great importance and value to a person.
总之，自信是一个人的精神支柱也是一个人的内在力量，它对一个人很重要也很有价值。
建立自信心的英文作文 篇2
Self-confidence as is approved by research and practice has an amazingly powerful influence on the output of people’s activities. Patients who believe that they’ll recover soon generally cures faster than those who think they won’t. Students with optimistic characters usually provide better performance even if they work the same hard as others. Although someone may regard such conclusion as superstitious it does take place everyday and everywhere. Neural scientists have discovered that when a man feels confident his brain will secrete some kinds of hormone that boost brain activity and improve the efficiency of his immune system. In contrast a melancholic brain is suppressed by other chemicals and cannot fully exhibit its potential.
To help building up self-confidence you can take the following two steps. First identify your merits and value them. If you constantly compare your weakness to others’ advantages you’d only gain frustration rather than confidence. Second track every little progress you’ve made and review them frequently. You may not possibly become perfectly successful in one day but if only you can see yourself growing gradually surely you’re on the right way. There’re also other methods making you more confident that depend on yourself to find out and they’re all necessary elements to make you more competitive in your area.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇3
Currently, self-confidence has become the order of our life, which improves the theory that nothing is more valuable than self-confidence.
It is obvious that self-confidence means trust in one’s ability. If we are full of self-confidence, we’ll have creative power to live and work, helping us success or dreams come true. On the contrary, if we have no confidence in ourselves, there will be little possibilities for us to win. We’ll always face failure.
What’s more, no one can deny another fact that self-confidence gives us light when we walk in the dark and courage when we face stumbling blocks. With self-confidence, we can achieve goals in our life.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇4
Whatever one does, one should do it with confidence. If one has no confidence, there is little possibility that one can achieve anything when faced with hardships. This truth seems to be self-evident. In reality, however, we do see a lot of people who always complain that they lack the ability to do something or that their difficulties are too great to overcome. For some, this might be true. But for many others, this only shows that they have lost heart.
Why do some people often feel frustrated even though they are capable of doing something? I think there are two main reasons. In the first place, these people don’t have a correct estimate of themselves. For example, …… Secondly, there is another possibility that they exaggerate the difficulties. They can’t see ….. They tend to ……..
In my opinion, one should build up faith in oneself as long as he has a right attitude towards his own abilities. We should neither underestimate nor overestimate our abilities. As a proverb says, “Where there is a will, there is a way.” With confidence we can certainly cope with any task we are faced with.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇5
Confidence, in a broad sense, comprises self-trust,self-esteem, courage and indomitability.This definition,though somewhat vague and unsubstantial, can be appreciated through experience because iff our lifetime, we are always seeking to achieve something successful and are always longing.to attain a glorious goal, which can only be reached with the spirit of self confidence.
As is known, self-confidence is accompanied by will, and that as a twin, offers hope. Those who do not have a strong will often think themselves unable to carry out any thorny tasks, while those who have do not find the tasks unsurmountably difficult. In fact, when our heart is void of selfconfidence, every hope is gone, every thing on which we put our hands seems to be veiled in dark. For instance, according to experts, every year in the entrance examinations of all kinds, fully-prepared candidates lose nearly 5% to 10% of the full scores, and consequently meet their Waterloo simply because they underestimate their own abilities, on the one hand,and overestimate possible difficulties on the other. As a result, their fear to meet new challenge leads to helplessness in the examination.
Self-confidence can be regained (if you have ever lost it) by building faith in yourself.True,whatever you do, you will encounter hardships. Put success Will come to you if you are courageous enough to strive for it. If you are not, failure might be your life-companion.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇6
As we all know, “Failure is the mother of success.” But I just want to say“Success is the baby of confidence.”
First of all, confidence makes us happier in our life. Life is like a wonderful song, a bright and colorful painting. If confidence is with us in our life, we will find that life really becomes richer and more interesting.
Then, confidence makes us brave and courageous. If we lack confidence in ourselves, how can we overcome difficulties we meet with? If we have no confideuce in ourselves, how can we succeed in developing ourselves in the future?Without confidence, nothing can be accomplished. That is to say, if you want to win, you have to believe in yourself.
Finally, I would like to use the following words as our mutual encouragement：“If you think you can, you can.”
【成功与自信的英文作文的译文】
众所周知，“失败是成功之母”，但是，我只想说：“成功是自信之子。
首先，自信使我们的生活更幸福。生活宛如一首动听的歌，一幅色彩缤纷的图画，假如生命中有了自信-，我们会发现生活会变得更丰富，更有趣。
其次，自信能使我们变得英勇无比。假如我们缺乏自信，那么如何去克服遇到的困难呢?假如没有自信，又如何在未来成功地发展自己呢?没有自信，你就不可能做咸任何事情，也就是说，如果你想成功，你必须相信自己!
最后，我想用下面一句话与你共勉：“如果你认为你能成功，你一定会成功”
建立自信心的英文作文 篇7
As a famous saying goes that life is not a bed of roses,we will always encounter difficulties or troubles in our daily life.but what you should do when we are caught in difficult situations.
First we should keep an optimistic attitude.
Secondly,we should be clearly aware of our strengths and defects.
Thirdly,we should know well about our enemy,the difficulties.
Fourthly,when preparation work is ready,next we should put what we have planned into practice step by step.There go several pieces of advice.First of all,as a saying said that well begun is half done,so it's better to start from the easiest part of the trouble.Then,when we have made some achievements in dealing with the trouble,we can move on to the harder part of it.
This way of handling trouble will be more effectively.After we conquer each high mountain of troubles,we will not only get new opportunities,but also make more achievements in the adventurous journey of our life.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇8
Confidence is essential for everyone. Only establishing confidence can we accomplish our goal. Nevertheless, many people especially teenagers are lack of confidence. What a serious problem! How to develop confidence?
First of all, we should aware of our own advantages. Though nobody is perfect, we can be proud of own advantages. In this way, we can adapt the pressure of contemporary society.Secondly, we are supposed to give ourselves a smile face. It's necessary to remember that not tire of life and look down on ourselves. Facing a mirror to smile, maybe we will feel confident. Finally, we shouldn't be afraid of failure and challenges. On the contrary, we should raise our courage to overcome these problems.
In a word, as a saying says,” Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you. "Confidence for us is an indispensable part of our life.
建立自信心的英文作文 篇9
Some people say that self-confidence is the most beautiful. Confidence is a sense of certainty about their, no matter how others see you, treat yourself confident can never stingy. Self-confidence can you loose the burden in the heart, like a bird free flying, tell you not a little bird. More confident, life will be more beautiful.
May be destined to a person's character, it is not easy to change. But if everyone into confident on their own elements, their life will become more colorful, more open. You may ask why you are confident? I think: confidence + opportunity = success.
So self-confidence is indispensable auxiliary conditions. Everyone thinks oneself from birth, fate dominate everything, all want to follow the path of destiny. If you have such idea, may be you are wrong. Destiny is master in your hand, opportunity is in your side. The you find place, it did not work. Don't let the chance to run out in front of you, the first to catch the opportunities, of course. However, get the opportunities, of course, is a good thing. But people have the opportunity to don't you will achieve success. Some people often suffer from failure tripping, overwhelm be heavy setbacks, let these people thought he was a mediocre person, chance on them. Success will become very slim.
So have the opportunity is important, the most important thing is that you have confidence. Even if you get upset about my setbacks, as long as you have a good mood, have full confidence in myself. Believe that failure and frustration on you again, can also be solved. So self-confidence is very important for a person, even if you don't have too much talent, have the confidence you have into a big step away from success than others. Albert Einstein said, confidence is to take the first step to success. So people should have confidence, also need confidence in life.
The colour of life more and more beautiful. The reason is that everyone is different, look at the point of view of the world depends on your mindset. A bright and cheerful disposition, confident people tend to think the outside world is wonderful, instead you will feel it is all under the gray.
Living on his own shortcomings too persistent, this will give you self-confidence greatly diminished. Measure their feet well in my heart, you will find yourself actually also has advantages.
So life need confidence, because confidence makes you more beautiful.
【建立自信心的英文作文（精选9篇）】
看到这个标题，相信应该会有一些人感到特别亲切，因为这句话是读完《管道的故事》这本书之后都会有很明显的感受和体悟的一句话，这就是这本书中极力强调的一点。
那么什么叫建立你的管道呢？首先给大家讲一个故事吧，这也是书中给大家阐述的道理，但是我把它浓缩成一个比较简单的小故事。在一个偏僻的地方有一处小山庄，村庄里面唯一的水源就是下雨，后来人们发现在其他地方有一处水源，人们十分欣喜，每一个人都希望这能成为自己源源不断的水源，可是他们却犯难了——大家每天都要工作，有什么时间去那里提水呢？村长就把大家召集过来，把村里面最有威望的人聚集起来开了个大会，最后决定叫两个人一起去提水。这两个人刚毕业，年轻力壮，而且还没有找到工作，正好这就做他们的工作吧，让他们长期为村庄提供服务。第1个人听了这个消息之后非常高兴，他觉得自己找到了一个非常好的工作——提一桶水就可以赚10块钱，虽然那条路很长，而且一桶水不能是普通的小桶，而是村子定制的大桶，但是他每天提个20桶，赚个200块钱是没有问题的，他感觉这是幸运女神在眷顾自己，虽然每天躺下来都很累，但是他的腰包渐渐富有起来了，人们尊敬的称他为“先生”，他感到生活十分愉快，他认为只要自己坚持提水，就一定会有收入，这样自己的生活也能源源不断的提升质量，并且维持。另一个人也像第1个人一样，先去提了几天的水，也赚了不少钱，但是他感到非常累，他觉得一定有更好的方法。于是，他想出了一个办法——“如果我从水源到村子里建造一条管道，是不是我就不用自己去提水而有源源不断的水源留住了呢？我是不是无时不刻就都有收入了呢？”他对自己的这个想法感到非常满意，非常的兴奋，他认为自己就是个天才。于是他走到第1个人的家门口，然后把他叫了出来，对他说了自己的想法——“只要我们建造一条管道虽然前期可能会辛苦一点，但是后期我们就有源源不断的收入了，我们不再需要去提水，不管什么时候一天24个小时，我们都会有源源不断的收入。”但是第1个人听完之后却感到非常不切实际，因为在此之前他还没有听说过有人建造过一条管道呢。于是他打消他朋友的想法说：“别做这一些不切实际的美梦了，什么管道？我们现在的工作非常的好，只要我们坚持提水，我们就会有源源不断的收入，这不就非常好了吗？用不了多久，我们就可以成为这个村子里面最富有的两个人，要知道现在每天的收入，整个村子我们就最高啊！”第1个人兴奋的手舞足蹈，但是第2个人听完之后却摇摇头：“如果有一天你受伤了，提不了水那怎么办？你岂不是就没有收入？你怎么保证你的生活？”第1个人听完之后，笑着摇摇头说：“那我可以让我的儿子去提水嘛。”“要是你的儿子也受伤了怎么办？要是他刚好不在你身边出差了怎么办？”第2个人接连反问第1个人。第1个人却把第2个人赶走了：“怎么可能这么巧，去去去，你要想建你自己建。”第2个人只好无奈的走开了，然后开始了自己长时间的建造管道。一开始第1个人确实像他所描述的那样，慢慢的就变成了村子里面最富有的一个人，他建造起了一栋高大的房子，并且每天都要去饭店里面吃饭，绝不会在自己家里面做饭，这是为了向别人炫耀他的财富。他换上了好看的手表，穿上了好看的鞋子，好看的衣服。但是第2个人呢，因为他每天都要去建造管道，因为他提水的时间自然而然就减少了，所以他的生活并没有发生太大改变，只是由于他仍然有坚持去提水，因此他的生活还是有保障的，可是两个人都是去提水，比起第1个人来说，第2个人的表现实在太差了，很多人都取笑第2个人。但是第2个人丝毫不在乎，终于，两年后，他建造起了自己的第1条管道，在那一天他打开了管道的开关，源源不断的水源处，流到了村庄。第2个人对村庄的人说：“我可以一天24个小时都给你们提供水，并且我能保证我的水是干净的。”第2个人早就知道很多村民在抱怨，第1个人提来的水不够干净，时不时要掉进去一点东西。”于是很多村民都要求第1个人到自己家里去建造水龙头，并且给的报酬比之前给第1个人的报酬要多得多，而且因为第1个人满足了所有人的愿望，而且水比第1个人提来的水要干净的多，所以第1个人失业了。而第2个人呢，现在每天都只需要躺在家里面看看书喝喝茶，和别人聊天，但是他的水却源源不断从管道流过，它源源不断的都在增加收入，以至于第2个人说：“我感觉我的钱好像花不完了。”
从这个故事中大家可以看出什么，如果我们只是单纯的去提水的话，那么我们就只能是用我们的时间去换取我们的报酬，而如果我们用这些时间去建造管道的话，那么我们就能够在管道建成之后拥有源源不断的收入，即使我们不去工作，这就是管道的力量，读完这本书之后，我最大的感受就是大部分人其实一生都在提水桶，但是却很少有人去建造管道，也正是因为如此，根据二八定律，20%的人掌握了世界上80%的财富。
这本书扩宽了我的眼界。
隋朝末年，大将李渊带着自己的儿子建成，世民，元吉等人赴王命镇守太原，西京（长安）一带。
由于隋炀帝腐败无能，贪拥奢华。众多人里是男的就抓来当苦役，当太监。长得好的，当男侍。不好的，当杂役，当太监。是女的就当侍女，奴婢。丑的当宫女，漂亮的当贵人，妃子。
李世民不忍，劝父反隋，再三劝导下，李渊醒目。开始进行了长达28年的反隋计划，又用了5年的时间，剿灭了所有的反唐贼寇。成为了，如今最盛大的朝代之一————大唐帝国。又使中国变得欣欣向荣了起来。
在生活中身边的人大多认为我性格较温和可亲，但我认为自己仍然在某些公共场合需要变得胆大心细，更加有魄力和自信才好。比如一些辩论赛当众演讲等，我就需要增强自己的口才技能与现场逻辑思维与反应敏捷性了。归根结底，我的第一步要做的就是建立自信心。自信心是一切成功的基石。只要让自己相信自己的才干能力，才有可能激发内在潜能和取得胜利的果实。那么如何才能让自己拥有自信力呢？我试图在智慧书海中寻求想要的答案，以下就是我自己阅读过后总结的重要两点。
第一点，从外在自信开始建立自信心。人们都认为光鲜亮丽的外在形象要比邋遢的形象让自我感觉更加有信心，也大大增加了成功的机会。事情确实如此，因为我们的外在形象的好坏与否，是会影响我们对自我内在能力的肯定或怀疑。所以说让自己保持一个成功者的积极外在形象，就会慢慢增加我们对自我信心的认知：我看上去是个成功人士，而我肯定也是个成功人士啦。
第二点，通过与人交流、阅读、旅游等开阔视野、知识内涵的提升来慢慢建立自信心。正是因为内在世界的丰富充实让我们变得更加自信，我们通过阅读量的积累，实践经验的丰富，与人交流的深刻体验，我们自然而然地由无知变成有知再到全知的状态，这是我们的心态更加理性积极，人也就更加自信了。
李嘉诚曾言，若写墓志铭，那么我一定选择一直支持我每天充满斗志的一句话：建立自我，追求无我。自我是量的积累，而独立自由的个体最终实现质的飞跃，以至无我之境。如他所言，生而有我，死时我精神仍不灭。
何为“自我”？
哲学有言：我思故我在。庄子言：天地万物与我为一。道家“天人合一”论阐述“我”的来源与人生归宿，西方追索人生哲理而发出人生三问。自我是个体，孤独而完整，是一座孤岛。独特而完整的每个人生活在平行世界中如一颗行星，运行于自己的轨迹中。每个人有各自的人生规划，不同于别人，这便是“自我”。
何为“建立自我”？
臧克家曾写：有的人死了，他还活着。有的人活着，但他已经死了。此言说的便是自我建立和毁灭的两种状态。屈原为心中高洁志向而投江，他完成自我信仰的夙愿；鲁迅“横眉冷对千天指，俯首甘为孺子牛”，以锋笔刺向懦弱黑暗的社会，达到自我价值的践行：齐白石“学我者生，似我者死”高呼艺术的自我；程蝶衣不疯不魔不成话只为戏而生的自我，他们不拘于世俗泥淖，于淤泥中出尘不染污，保持完整而高雅的自我，这种自我便是受人敬受人赞赏的“自我”。当之无愧为“建立自我”的典范。
何为“无我”？
金庸笔下的江湖侠士高超绝艺大都要达到“无我之境”，忘怀得失，无欲无求，很像佛经中的“超度”。道家“我大抵“为”，玄妙高深；水深火热中的时代，“无我”便是鲜血浇灌的战士和仁人。当戊戌六君子血溅懦弱腐朽的帝国时，自我奉献的英雄观高度彰显；耻辱国史，有舍身求义，为民请命的人，他们皆是中国的背梁。而如今只白煎往亚丁湾护航的宋玺和一心只为天台望远镜的南仁东，无数个默默钻研的大国工匠和身处后方的忠实研究人员，他们皆达到忘我之境。于他们的世界中，只有眼前所奉献而痴迷一生的事物，别无其它。岁月吹不走的痴迷，终成为“无我”之境。
何为“追求无我”？
大抵有“无为”之境的人皆能做到为社会国家贡献自身力量。于社会，志愿者肩负希望，为社会创造美好境界；于国家，有民族的背梁扛起半边天，“港珠澳大桥如是，天眼如是，天宫二号嫦娥探月如是，新时代中国亦如是。无数个战士或浴血奋战或以笔为剑或群舌争辩或用汗水浇灌祖同大地，他们生而平凡微小但却用自己强大的力量给予中国繁荣与成就。自古以来，皆如是。追求“无我”之境，前有来者，后有来者。
建立自我，追求无我。以此为墓志铭终结人生，应该是最完美的概述。简单有力，启迪深刻。